IT MAKES SENSE!

(11:39:42 PM): long distance relationships never work

(11:41:05 PM): people change
(11:41:15 PM): especially now that we are moving on with our lives
(11:41:27 PM): its not gonna be the same

(11:41:56 PM): of course, nobody really likes change
(11:42:11 PM): but we've reached a point where we just have to drop everything
(11:42:16 PM): no matter how hurtful it is
(11:42:23 PM): and just look forward

(11:43:04 PM): she needs to time to get used to not having me around
(11:43:16 PM): so she is using our time in vacations
(11:43:39 PM): needs some*

(11:44:23 PM): I'm optimistic about it
(11:44:33 PM): and I'm busy anyway
(11:44:53 PM): so it helps keep my mind away from those thoughts

(11:45:51 PM): one thing too.......it takes a lot longer for a man to fall in love with a girl
(11:46:16 PM): but either way, its still going to hurt you
(11:46:29 PM): I didn't get it until some lady explained it to me
(11:47:20 PM): but she was like "men want to give everything to that special someone, its just they need to feel ready to give you the world"
(11:47:47 PM): and right now, we really can't offer you much but love
(11:48:11 PM): cause money we don't have, nevertheless a house, car, credit card, etc
(11:48:47 PM): but keep yourself busy! Thats very important!

(11:50:22 PM): its gonna take some time
(11:50:49 PM): I mean it hurts and stuff
(11:51:00 PM): but I can let go

(11:51:10 PM): you should talk to Tanith
(11:51:25 PM): she can relate to you way more than I can
(11:51:29 PM): I know she really is hurting
(11:51:34 PM): and she could use your help
(11:51:49 PM): well.. i kinda needed a guys point of view on this too
(11:52:06 PM): like I said, we feel worthless
(11:52:31 PM): so we feel its pointless to fall in love with a woman when all you can offer her is love
(11:52:38 PM): doesn't make us feel like "men"
(11:52:53 PM): (even if all the woman is looking for is love)
(11:53:15 PM): yeah I know
(11:53:21 PM): its hard to understand
(11:53:40 PM): but just like you can't forget about the breakup
(11:53:52 PM): we can't forget that we really don't have much to offer
(11:54:48 PM): why do guys always put themselves down like that
(11:56:05 PM): why do girls fall in love easily?
(11:56:30 PM): don't know where I heard this but it goes perfectly right now "THE WORLD MAY NEVER KNOW"
(11:56:33 PM): it just happens
(11:57:34 PM): it's not that we fall in love so easily, we're just scared that one day you'll be gone in a instant so we try to make the best of it in the present
(11:58:04 PM): thats what Tanith told me!
(11:59:02 PM): well for us guys its more like "yeah, we can fall in love right now, but the guy is going to look very stupid when he can't support the wife....(and even more f*cked if kids come along)
(11:59:20 PM): there's no need to think of the future right now
(11:59:30 PM): it's better to just live in the present
(11:59:34 PM): and let things happen on their own
(11:59:39 PM): yeah, it is
(12:00:02 AM): but men and women have their separate opinions
(12:00:19 AM): one is not better than the other
(12:00:25 AM): yeah, it's complicated to understand each other
(12:00:25 AM): its a preference
(12:01:01 AM): cause would you like a man that says "I don't want to go to work, I wanna enjoy my life right now"
(12:01:16 AM): or the man that says "I'm gonna go to work because I have to feed the kids"
(12:01:38 AM): thats the way we think
(12:01:38 AM): it's too early to think about kids!
(12:01:59 AM): to us. it's the little things that matters
(12:02:05 AM): yeah, but babies come out of nowhere!
(12:02:10 AM): we appreciate everything
(12:02:34 AM): right now everyone is just thinking bout college and whats going to happen later
(12:04:09 AM): its a magnet effect
(12:04:25 AM): so yeah
(12:04:34 AM): thats why man and woman belong together
(12:04:41 AM): balance it all out
(12:04:42 AM): cause one thinks of the present,the other of the future
(12:04:51 AM): together they are the perfect combination
(12:04:59 AM): THE END
(12:07:32 AM): well Thank You too
(12:07:43 AM): I learned alot from you
(12:07:52 AM): well women (in general)
(12:08:15 AM): You connected the dots that have been dazzling in my head for a while now
(12:08:56 AM): high five team work!
(12:09:42 AM): *super high five*
(12:12:52 AM): you girls can spend time together
(12:12:58 AM): and talk about how stupid guys are
(12:13:02 AM): and never change
(12:13:07 AM): lol
(12:13:11 AM): that always work
(12:13:11 AM): hah personally i don't think guys are stupid
(12:13:15 AM): they just care
(12:13:19 AM): in their own ways
(12:13:22 AM): awwww.....
(12:13:27 AM): good answer
(12:14:41 AM): ITS TRUE RIGHT?
(12:15:14 AM): yeah

thank you Jesse Garcia for the talk. It was random and out of the blues but really, thank you(: